Did anyone else want to give tonight's 16 and Pregnant baby daddy a haircut? Or at least a comb?
Does this make me old?
Another bit of a snoozer this week, in my opinion. Nicole and Tyler seemed like a sweet couple, albeit a little unmotivated. He obviously loves her a lot, and loves the baby, which is a refreshing change from the d-bags that were around earlier this season. Now if only he hadn't been kicked out of school when he was 12 years old.
Watching this show as a (mostly) responsible adult is weird. It kind of makes me want to stand outside of high schools and hand out condoms. I mean, what happened to these kids? I have always (ALWAYS) been terrified of getting pregnant. Like, legitimately freaked out. Like, let's wrap both of ourselves in Saran Wrap and then stand in separate rooms and then we can have sex, that sounds like a great idea. These girls don't appear to have the fear of God in them when it comes to getting knocked up. And while I grew up in a pretty laid-back household with some pretty cool parents, that was one thing that was definitely on the "do not do" list.
And then you watch tonight's episode and Nicole's mom said that when she found out her 16-year-old daughter, a high school sophomore, was pregnant, she was happy for her, it's like, say what? Speak into my good ear, woman, did you just say you were happy about your underaged daughter having unprotected sex and having a baby?
I wonder why these girls don't feel like they have choices. Not just choices between adoption, abortion, or keeping their baby; but choices to have safe sex or have no sex, to go on birth control, to tell their boyfriends no sex without condoms. And then the mirror gets turned back on all of us, not just their parents, for encouraging a society where underaged girls have a hard time accessing birth control, where girls are made to feel like they can't stand up to their boyfriends (how many of these 16 and Pregnant girls say their boyfriends "don't like" condoms so they didn't use them), where boys aren't taught to take responsibility for their part of the process, where parents are afraid to talk to kids (and vice versa) about their sex lives?
Maybe instead of judging the kids on this show, we should be judging ourselves. After all, we should know better.